New Year, New Ideas

I've been told recently in the past few weeks of how I am not a good person, I am evil, and I take advantage of people.

That I know, is a personal opinion, one that I cannot change in their mind, however it did make me stand back for a minute to see if it really was true.

The opinion is completely biased, as I was the one that did the hurting. I am okay with the recent thought of hatred (if you want to call it that), and while I believe in Karma, I am afraid of what it has in store for me for reciprocating the way I did.

In any case, rather than sit scared, waiting to see what Karma has in store for me, i'm flying by the seat of my pants, living Carpe Diem-style and in the midst of all of it, often forgetting to fully think.

I have always been a planner. Well, not always, but my later years in life have taught me that you must plan for the future.

Now i'm taking an approach of living in the NOW. Yes, I know there is possibly some easy happy medium that I can take and use, both utilizing the approach of living NOW and planning for the future....

How do you do it?

I'll let you know when I figure it out.