I've been thinking for the past few days if its healthy to pursue a friendship/no strings attached relationship with someone who has also gotten out of a relationship recently.
I guess it just really boils down to whether or not the candidate is emotionally stable enough to do so.
I was counseled by my younger sister that the past relationships I have been in have ended with me being the one who makes the other realize that they need to get their lives together...I for one, am tired of being the prepper of these men.
I want a man who is already prepped, and knows what he wants from life. I need someone who has their life squared away and is only needing that puzzle piece of a wife in his life.
Unfortunately, I've been burnt at the idea of having a relationship that will result in marriage.
So some insight was brought to me by my younger sister...in my quest of figuring out myself and how to date, I am going to be careful of not falling in love with a guy who is not ready for what I am ultimately heading towards in the near future.
Until then, i will just continue having my friends, and building friendships, while still continuing to be honest with those that i interact with.
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